There are many ways to help ease some of this by supporting and guiding them - they might not tell you they want help, but by showing your support your child will pick up on your positive attitude and this can help encourage them to do the same when it comes to their education.
The benefits of helping your child are endless. First and foremost, you will find that you end up spending more quality time with them by listening and talking, and you will also be able to gauge a sense of what their strengths and weaknesses are.
Supporting your child with their homework
Give children a chance to talk about their schoolwork - when you ask them about your day, check in to see what they've been learning. Even if you know nothing about a particular subject, you can still help by listening and helping them find their own answers. If you do not understand the work they have been given, look it up - use the internet or ask friends and family to have a look. Once you understand the work, you may be better placed to support your child.
Help your children take responsibility for organising and doing their homework. Never forget to praise your child for the work they put in. Many schools have a homework diary, or daybook for parents to sign each day. This helps you and your child keep track of homework.
Help keep a routine for your child when it comes to homework. You might find your child wants to complete their homework as soon as they come home from school, or they might want to relax and then start working later in the evening. Let your child decide when they want to do their homework but try and keep a regular time.
Praise and encourage your child to help boost their confidence. Try to pick up on how they have completed certain tasks for example, "I like the way you worked that out…" as opposed to "Well done".