Minimising the demands
Set some boundaries and rules before you go shopping so children know what to expect. You could let them choose a couple of items such as the family’s cereal or a dessert so they feel they have had a say in the buying. Stay consistent and strong and try to remain calm.
Offer lots of positive praise and attention when your children behave well at the shops and remember not to pester you. You could think about offering non-material rewards such as spending time together with a family movie night or a trip to the park. Try to limit the amount of advertising in your home through all types of media.
Help children to understand the value of money and encourage them to save up birthday, Christmas and pocket money for bigger items. You could suggest your child saves their pocket money for so many weeks, then you will match the amount saved to buy what they are hoping for.
Talk to teenagers about finding ways to earn money such as babysitting, washing neighbours cars and paper rounds plus part-time jobs when they are old enough. Help them to set up a savings account with a debit card and show them how they can keep track of spending and budgeting.
When teens are pestering you to go out to parties and sleepovers and wanting to stay out late, try to talk through with them beforehand what your expectations are and be prepared to negotiate and compromise with them.